Focus on what's working.
Focus on what's working.
I just finished a session with a customer who was not concentrating on working.
She had some lapses in her business and wasn't dealing with them effectively.
Well, that is part of being in business, is not it-failures?
We all have lapses from time to time. effects do not go as anticipated or are fully unanticipated.
This customer entered many" Nos " and had some reversals.
She came so focused these events that she began to suppose" nothing in my life is working".
We have all been there at one point or another and presumably more than formerly.
It's like this.
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It's like having 3 radios playing at the same moderate volume in one room.
also you turn a radio up to maximum volume. Enough soon you can not pick out the melodies playing on the other 2 radios, and indeed forget what was playing there!
still,( or it's not helping you get the stylish results), you have to turn on the other radios, if you do not like what is playing on the loud radio.
For my customer, fastening on the many effects that were not working made them more important than they really were.
By fastening on just those many effects, all positive issues were forced out of his mind.almost as if they no longer was.
But in reality, positive effects still live. There are numerous good effects passing in this customer's life.
And purposely bringing those effects back to mind, forcing those negative effects back into perspective. Back in the right proportion they should take in his life.
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When effects do not go relatively right, you can take it as an occasion to estimate and do effects else.
still, it makes sense to review the situation, and see if there is a more or different way of doing effects, If commodity is not working for you or your business.
Bringing in some outside help can be helpful, because frequently when we are in the forestland, we can not see the wood for the trees.
So if you are feeling a little down, or feel like nothing is working for you, talk to a friend to get some outside perspective.
Someone who would bring out" salute up chum, biography is not that bad. what about the valid effects in your biography?"
Or if you want to DIY yourself. take a long brisk walk and name effects you can be thankful for in your life.
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Every has 100's and 1000's of effects to be thankful for in their life, whether they believe it or not. It's just a matter of fastening on them!
Well, it's really that simple!
What should you do now?
still, get some outside perspective, If you are feeling a little down.